Hey friends,
Let's talk about something that's been on my mind lately - forgiveness. Not the Hallmark card version, but the real, gritty work of accepting what happened and healing our wounds.
When we can't let go of hurt or resentment, we're essentially tying an invisible string between ourselves and that person or situation. And guess what? That string becomes our master, and we become the slave. Ouch.
I witnessed this with a client recently who couldn't move forward in her self-discovery journey because she was carrying the weight of her ex's actions everywhere she went. She wasn't in love with him anymore, but she was certainly in relationship with the pain.
As a coach, I see this pattern all the time. We think we're punishing someone else by not forgiving them, when really we're just poisoning our own well.
Remember, forgiveness doesn't mean you have to restore the relationship.
It doesn't even require you to interact with the person! It's an internal job of acceptance, healing, and letting go so YOU can reclaim your power.
Are you ready to cut the invisible strings? Download the Creative Destruction Workbook! Your freedom is waiting on the other side.
LYLAS
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